3 Things to Do on Senior Citizens Day to Engage Your Family Legacy

3 Things to Do on Senior Citizens Day to Engage Your Family Legacy



The Reality of our Aging Population

In 1950 there were 200 million people over 60 years old – by 2000 that number had tripled to nearly 600 million and by 2025 it is estimated that there will be over 1 billion older persons.

August 21, National Senior Citizens Day, is an opportunity to celebrate the wisdom and achievements senior citizens have made, as well as to advocate for the rights of older people throughout the world.

What Senior Citizens Day Means To Me

When I think about Senior Citizens Day, I think about my parents who served as terrific role models for my children. I think about my mom who helped take care of my kids as I traveled for work. I think about my dad who was a father figure for my kids. He helped answer my son’s questions as only another man can. He showed my daughter’s what unconditional love looks like and helped them recognize they were perfect as they are. As a single mom, it takes a village to raise children today. I’m so thankful to have had my parents play very active roles in my children’s lives until they died in 2012.

I also think about my grandparents; whom I spent time with growing up and learned so much from. When I see senior citizens today, I always wonder whether they feel like they have lived their lives with passion and purpose. I think about whether they have made peace with everyone and everything. I also wonder how they feel about their legacy and if they have stories in their hearts that they want and need to share.


3 Things to Do on Senior Citizens Day to Engage Your Family Legacy

 Some of my favorite things to do with my parents had tangible benefits for them as they honed their legacy, as well as encouraging inter-generational contact. Here’s a list of 3 easy things you can do:

  1. Spend physical time with your senior loved ones.

    The simple presence of a friend or a hug from a family member can help raise cortisol levels and reduce stress. Eye contact helps create connection and touch reduces stress, increases happiness levels and helps them feel loved. It doesn’t have to be a lot of time. The key is the quality of your time together; not the quantity.


  1. Watch movies, play games and record family history moments with your senior loved ones.

    Establishing a practice that can be shared with all generations creates an opportunity for families to share some of their favorite activities with one another. Some of my favorite moments with my parents were watching their favorite movies together and listening to their perspective on life. I loved playing games with my parents and grandparents as it promoted fun. I really appreciated the opportunity of asking questions about their life and our family as it helped them go from their head to their heart and experience moments of joy and appreciation for all they have been through and seen in life. In my own life, I’ve interviewed my kids (separately) and got some interesting responses. You can check out these interview articles here, here and here. Feel free to adapt the questions to work for you and your family.   As a Huffington Post contributor, I had the honor of recording a video with my kids for their #talktome series. You can check it out here for ideas on what to ask.

I recently recorded a video with more insights on my story and why this is so important to me. Check out the video HERE.

  1. Practice random acts of kindness with your senior loved ones.

    Finally, visit and talk with your loved ones especially when they’re not expecting it. Drop by their home or assisted living community for a meal and conversation. Bring a pack of cards. Take them out for a surprise lunch at a favorite restaurant or take them to a local attraction or movie.

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Most noteworthy, my kids are better human beings because of the close ties they had with their grandparents. These memories will always be with them. It’s the little things that make a huge difference. In honor of National Senior Citizens Day, start a new tradition and keep it going all year long. Your families will be stronger and happier for it.

It’s YOUR Turn: What things have you done to strengthen your family and help your loved ones create a legacy they love? Please comment below.





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Tandy Elisala

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Tandy Elisala is passionate about bringing hope and wholehearted living to people going through cancer and their caregivers. Tandy went through cancer four times and learned how to heal using conventional, complementary, and alternative therapy. She left her 23-year corporate career to take care of both parents simultaneously for 2 ½ years. She now teaches what she learned on her journey and how to thrive during and after cancer using the true sources of health and healing: hope and mindset, spiritual connection, relationships, alignment and mind, body healing. Tandy is a multiple best-selling author, radio show host, mother of three grown kids and her precious dog, Roxy. Learn more about Tandy at www.tandyelisala.com.

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7 replies
  1. Heather
    Heather says:

    It is certainly much more meaningful to spend time with elderly loved ones than to just give the occasional phone call and birthday card. Thanks for sharing!

  2. Laurel Santos
    Laurel Santos says:

    Elderly deserves all the love and care. Let us not forget to show them our love and care. This is the least thing that we could do to repay them. Every small things matter for them.


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