What Cancer Taught Me About Love
By Tandy Elisala
I am SO honored to be part of an absolutely top notch 365 book series. Our third book in this series: 365 Life Shifts: Pivotal Moments that Changed Everything, contains stories of love, grace, hope, transformation, healing and so much more. Our book become a #1 international best selling book in EIGHT categories! Learn more about how you can get your hands on this truly magical book here: http://www.365lifeshifts.com/
My story in this amazing collaboration is about what cancer taught me about self love. Enjoy!
When we don’t learn the lesson or receive the blessing in the experience, the “thing” often leaves the room, changes clothes, and comes back into our life posed as something else. In my case, it came back as the same thing…FOUR TIMES! I consider myself a quick learner, yet there was clearly something I was missing.
After my fourth and final cancer diagnosis, I wrote down my life vision. One of the things on my list was to find my divine male complement in physical form. I went on to write down that when I released the rest of the excess weight, I’d be ready for this relationship. The next thing I knew, something came over me, and my pen scratched that sentence out…and kept on scratching like my life depended on it.
In that moment, I knew that I was the same person I had been 85 pounds ago and would be the same person when I reached my ideal weight. I knew that I deserved to be in a relationship – whether it would be the next day, the next month, or the next year.
This doesn’t mean that I no longer want to gain complete restored health and fitness. It means that I accept myself exactly as I am, and I open myself up for infinite abundance in all life areas. It means that I feel love…self-love.On the fourth try, cancer finally taught me to be my own best friend. Click To Tweet
On the fourth try, cancer finally taught me to be my own best friend. It taught me to totally love and accept myself with all my stretch marks, scars, and wrinkles. It taught me to let go of caring what others think of me. It taught me to stop waiting for the “perfect” time to open that nice bottle of wine or wear that gorgeous outfit. It taught me that all the answers are within me and that self-love is the best love.Self Love Is The BEST LOVE! Click To Tweet
This time around, I’ve finally gotten the message! I now feel, believe, and know that I am perfect in all my imperfections. I am so grateful for my life experiences. They have served me well, and I know that my future is bright as I shine my beautiful light out into the world.
365 True Stories of Loving Kindness!
Want to share your words, inspire others, expand your reach, and prove that goodness truly does abound – all at the same time?
I’m so happy to share this opportunity for you to become a contributing author in the upcoming book Goodness Abounds: 365 True Stories of Loving Kindness! It’s the 4th book in the #1 bestselling 365 Book Series, and it will contain 365 personal stories (from over 250 contributing authors) of people expressing love, goodness, and kindness. The experiences will range from huge expressions of lifelong love to small acts of kindness – all sharing one thing in common: they add to an ever-growing mountain of evidence that goodness abounds! I know that this book is going to uplift so many people, which is so needed in our world right now. I’m so excited that I’m going to be one of the contributing authors! If you’re feeling called to share your own story of kindness, be sure to sign up soon to reserve your spot – over 200 days are already reserved and there’s a special discount this month only! You can learn all about it right HERE!
About the 365 Book Series Editors
Jodi Chapman and Dan Teck are a husband-and-wife team who loves living soulfully and joyfully. Since 2005, they’ve been living their dream of writing books and creating products that inspire others to connect with their soul and live fully and passionately.
Jodi has a BA in English/Technical Editing and Sociology and Dan has a BA in Religious Studies and an MFA in Creative Writing. Together, they have over 30 years of experience with editing and publishing and have sold over 40,000 books. They have written 20 books, 10 ecourses, and over 1,000 blog posts/articles.
Jodi shares her heart at www.jodichapman.com, and Dan is the author of the personal-growth blog Halfway up the Mountain. They are the bestselling authors of the 365 Book Series and the Soulful Journals Series.
They live on the Oregon coast with their sweet cats. They enjoy hanging out at the beach and working, creating, and playing together.
They feel truly blessed to be able to spend each day together, doing what they love. And it’s their heart’s desire that their books and products bring joy to everyone they reach.
You can learn more about Jodi here: www.jodichapman.com
You can learn more about Dan here: www.halfwayupthemountain.com
You can learn more about their Soulful Journals here: www.soulfuljournals.com
You can learn more about their 365 books here: www.365bookseries.com
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