Self-love and self-care are my community themes this month. After all, February is all about love, right!?! The most important relationship we have is the one with ourselves. This month, I’m going to share self-love and self-care tips to help you remember your magnificence! Here are three tips to regain your self-confidence:

1. Ask for help.

I used to be superwoman. Let me rephrase that… I used to THINK I was superwoman. I mistakenly thought I could do everything myself (because nobody does it like me) and manage my home, career, business, kids, relationship and myself with one hand tied behind my back. Yeah, that didn’t work out so well. Asking for help is KEY to our success. I learned how to ask for help and…wait for it… ACCEPT help! When we ask for help, it’s a sign of strength and courage. It’s a great way to exercise self-love and self-care; which is wildly important.

Asking for someone’s help isn’t easy and it takes a lot of courage to reach out and receive help. Here’s the thing – when we ask for and receive help, we allow for others to be of service, to share their gifts and talents with the world.

2. Become a lifelong learner and share what you’ve learned. 

We learn through teaching others. This is the sweet spot for our personal development. I’m a HUGE reader. I LOVE books:-) Through reading, we come to know and understand so much: emotions, current events, culture, scientific developments, relationships; ourselves. By reading a book, magazine, journal, or newspaper we absorb the world and are better equipped to engage with it. And after we’ve read about something, we may feel motivated to apply and share what we’ve learned. This is a huge trait of successful people: They apply and share what they’ve learned. This helps anchor the learning and helps others in the process.

Through learning and applying new ideas, you’re connecting with others and the world. 

3. Take time to appreciate your successes.

Aahhhh, gratitude. Appreciation. Thankfulness. We need to take time and truly appreciate ourselves and our accomplishments. Taking time to acknowledge what we are doing well has an interesting way of putting an order in for the Universe to conspire and bring more things to be thankful for.

Here’s a video I recorded for you about rebuilding your self-confidence.

It’s YOUR turn: How have you rebuilt your self confidence? What tips will be helpful for you moving forward. Please comment below.


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Tandy Elisala

Founder and Chief Inspiration Officer at Center for Inspiring Greatness
Tandy Elisala is passionate about bringing hope and wholehearted living to people going through cancer and their caregivers. Tandy went through cancer four times and learned how to heal using conventional, complementary, and alternative therapy. She left her 23-year corporate career to take care of both parents simultaneously for 2 ½ years. She now teaches what she learned on her journey and how to thrive during and after cancer using the true sources of health and healing: hope and mindset, spiritual connection, relationships, alignment and mind, body healing. Tandy is a multiple best-selling author, radio show host, mother of three grown kids and her precious dog, Roxy. Learn more about Tandy at

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